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I know this is not the way to get her. I know it. I've never done this but still I do now this for a fact that no matter what it is but this isn't the correct way. You know right? .I have those set rules in my mind that I should follow, to make myself gain some attention in her eyes. Like not calling now, not asking her out for lunch, not texting first and keeping the conversation short so as to make her curious, primarily distancing myself and then making her come up for a confrontation and while she’s confused with all of that, asking her out. Believe me this is the perfect technique, which works like all the time but I don’t want to use some technique. I want to be myself with her. I want her to like me for what I am not out of impulse and that bitter confusion that I’d build up for her.  So, I’m going to stay this way only. I mean I’d call her. I’d take her polite rejections with a smile and keep trying. At least for a while. Till the time I can take them.
My dad always used to say - "Winning is important but losing is more". Frankly, I've never faced rejections. I've never faced failures. Hence, it becomes very weird for me to listen to so many NO’s and more difficult to digest them in but I have to try out this ways only because right now I’m just a common man. I am normal. I am not special. Not as of yet. 

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